To Whom It May Concern

About the Book

As a writer I mainly focus on relationships. All the perils concerned with becoming involved in and maintaining a relationship with the opposite sex. As women, are emotional creatures they sometimes feel that they must have an emotional relationship before beginning a sexual relationship. While men are usually, more visual and physical by nature. They are turned on by physical contact and visual stimuli, but women need so much more then that.

Women need emotional and spiritual nurturing, while men tend to lack understanding in that area of women’s needs.

When the two come together, this tremendous lack of understanding causes an abundance of pain and heartache. Women are left feeling under-appreciated, neglected and unloved. Men on the other hand, usually don’t understand what the problem is in the relationship. We often assume they will not understand; there is also a gap in communication, which furthers the stress we feel.

As a writer I attempt to explain this pain and heartache that women so often go through because of these misunderstandings. But in the end, we MUST eventually turn to a real relationship with God in order to reach the fullest potential that life has to offer.

About the Author

Sondra LaJoyce Settles was born and raised in Little Rock, Arkansas on October 4,1960 to Douglas Wendell and Geneva J. Peters. She graduated from historical Little Rock Central High School in 1978. She was married in January of 1980 to Jeffrey W. Settles, Sr. to which live beautiful children were born. Jeffrey., Jr.. Shauna, Douglas, and twins, Kiarra and Kayce. She was divorced in July 1999 after nearly 20 years of marriage. After the dissolution of her marriage, she began to write poetry about her life and the pain that she had to endure. The pain that stemmed from each relationship that she encountered during life produced the poetry that you are reading at this time. At this time, she lives and writes in Erving. Texas.