Boulders and Butterflies

About the Book

Boulders and Butterflies is intended to help young men and women who have a desire to discover and experience that deeper sensual component in each of us begging for attention, yet continued social pressure suppresses. A sensual relationship goes far deeper than the mere appearance and social prestige that appears to be happiness. Men are forced to be macho warriors from birth. Women continue to be harassed for being to emotional and similarly are being forced to suppress the true woman she is. Unleashing the true sensual being is what it takes to experience heaven on earth.


Book Review

Dalfors confirmed and gave words to thoughts, experiences, and feelings I have developed over a lifetime of lovers. Now in my sixties, I wish I had understood the distinction between sexuality and genuine erotic, spiritual sensuality when I was much younger. But, I am constantly grateful that I “get it” now.

What is “it”? I have finally come to realize that, as Dalfors expresses it, “I much prefer the intimacy of emotional love making rather than the athletic, physical performance of the same act. “ (144) I have learned that foreplay and afterglow ALWAYS enhance a sexual experience and that the route to my greatest satisfaction it to totally concentrate and immerse myself in the satisfaction of my partner.

I suspect that most women will read this book and think, “that’s what I want.” Men who read it, and “get it” will realize, “that’s what I’ve been missing.”

- ANONYMOUS

About the Author

The world drew him egotistically into the lure most men encounter – to be better than the next guy. Not sincerely competitive by nature, Jerry became his own biggest rival seeking to master all he encountered. An accomplished ferrier, handball and racquetball player, church leader, father, scoutmaster, educator and business executive, his greatest pleasure continues to come from seeing growth and success in others. Noted for building successful teams, mentoring young professionals from entry level technicians to directors, vice presidents and beyond, his participative style has driven to his need to see deeper into the inner self.