I Choose to Wait
The Quick Guide to Being Abstinent in Today’s Society
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One of the world’s greatest gospel singers sang an intriguing song: “I’ve got my mind made up, and I won’t look back…” That’s the mindset of an individual who knows exactly what he or she wants in life. For anyone to get to his or her desired dream or aspiration, there MUST be “ a made up mind. ” It’s very pertinent that we mean exactly what we say. Many Christians actually sing that song (I’ve got my mind made up …) without even having a clear comprehension of what they are verbalizing. The truth is: If your mind is really made up about something, even when the trials and temptations come, you stand immovable. Being abstinent requires your headspace. Your thoughts are the gateway to your soul. Our Father tells us in Philippians 4, to fix our thoughts on things that are pure, noble, praiseworthy; thoughts that please the Lord. However, we l ive in a society that believes it’s impossible to live without sex before marriage. Our society thinks that sexual purity is abnormal. That is simply a lie from the pits of hell. Likewise, it’s very possible to live holy; and be abstinent even when you are romantically and emotionally involved with [or committed to] someone. Being abstinent is an honorable thing. In your own strength and ability, you can always fall prey or victim to premarital sex temptations, but when you decide to be connected to the Vine, you can’t go wrong. When you decide to overcome such temptations on your own, you may be disappointed. Connect to the Vine, Jesus Christ. “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” - John 15:5 NIV At some point in your life, the flesh will persistently wage war against your Spirit and mind. It’s simply natural . You aren’t a “superhuman.” You are human, but meant to be supernaturally governed.
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About the Book
I’ve been there. Young, single, in a relationship and overwhelmed with the messages the media throws at our society, especially teens and young adults. We frequently hear “you should be this; you should try this; you should have sex; you should be in a relationship.” We are being bombarded with messages and ideas that tell us that having sex outside of marriage is okay, in fact, good. We are being told that having sex with multiple partners is acceptable, as long as you “use protection.” We frequently hear that being abstinent is abnormal.
The truth is, being sexually abstinent is a wonderful experience and the right thing to do. As a matter of fact, being abstinent can safeguard you from the negative consequences [spiritually, mentally and physically] that come with premarital sex. Did you know that sex is not just a physical act, but it involves your total self- spirit, soul and body?
I Choose to Wait is designed to inspire, encourage, advise and mentor anyone on how to live a life of purity, abstinence and holiness.
This book is primarily for:
- anyone who is abstinent and intends to remain so
- anyone who may have been sexually active and wants to be abstinent
- anyone who isn’t sure about what being abstinent means and has a desire to find out more, or
- anyone who desires to share this timely message and bless lives around the world, to the glory of God.
About the Author
Grace Anyanwu, born from an Igbo/Nigerian heritage, is a psalmist, preacher, songwriter, designer, an engineer by profession, author and abstinence advocate.
The vocal anointing Grace carries has left various congregations awed and mesmerized as she led them into God’s awesome presence. As a result, she’s traveled within the United States and around the world blessing lives with her angelic voice and ministering the word of God.
Grace Anyanwu received her Bachelor’s degree in Multimedia Communications with a minor in Spanish. She then completed her Masters of Science in Integrated Digital Media Engineering from New York University Tandon School of Engineering, graduating summa cum laude.
In the summer of 2016, Grace married her love and best friend, Dr. Miracle Anyanwu. Since then, the dynamic duo has worked together vigorously in building up the ‘body of Christ’ all over the world.
She, alongside her husband, presides over various ministries such as Miracle Anyanwu Ministries (M.A.M), Wisdom Nuggets with Dr. Miracle, I Choose to Wait Movement (I.C.W.), Life-Impact Generations Outreach (L.I.G.O. Foundation) – a non-profit charitable organization that blesses the lives of the impoverished and under-privileged with food, toiletries, clothing and medical supplies and so on. They also have an online clothing store called Model Modesty.
The God-fearing couple has a heart for the youth; and they’ve been determined to make a remarkable difference through leadership, humanitarian works, music, and media.
Outside of ministry, they love traveling, relaxing on the beach, watching movies, bowling and spending time with loved ones. They are blessed with three lovely children (a son and two daughters).
www.miracleanyanwu.org
www.ichoosetowait.org
www.ligofoundation.org
www.modelmodesty.org