Heirlooms
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About the Book
HEIRLOOMS IS ABOUT FAMILY LEGACIES.
The sixteen chapters of Part One include photographs of the heirlooms and describe the role of cherished objects in Sharon´s family history, revealing the souls of those heirlooms and the values that influenced her life. These principles have served as a lifeline during her final four years as she faced the challenges of a hereditary illness on its path of increasing paralysis to death.
PART TWO IS TITLED THE FINAL HEIRLOOM, A.L.S.
When her father was stricken with Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis ("Lou Gehrig´s Disease"), she knew of no family history of his disease. But five years after his death, Sharon was diagnosed with A.L.S. In Part Two she narrates the strange early symptoms, the diagnostic process, and her struggle to remain teaching. Sharon continues with a description of her life after leaving the classroom. Details of her physical decline are subordinate to those of rearranging priorities and meeting new challenges. Much of her story is told through letters that she wrote and some that she received. Four poems are integral parts of the context. Three are her own work. The other was written to her, and the author has given permission to include it.
FROM THE INTRODUCTION TO PART ONE:
"It has been four years since my diagnosis and three since I left teaching. My life has been full. I tell people that I have been having a lot of fun and accomplishing quite a bit for a dead person. Bulbar onset A.L.S. patients usually die at the shorter end of the two to five year prognosis. I was never a gambler, but I have beaten the odds on survival."
- A Delicate Platter from a Rugged Past
- A hundred year old china serving plate survives pioneer life in Sharon´s grandparents´ sod house on a homestead in Nebraska where the seeds of the family work ethic are planted.
- Kitchenware
- Old kitchen tools and serving pieces from Gramma´s kitchen remind us of the grueling work that was required to put a meal on the table for the family.
- An Opalescent Vase And Gramma´s Lace
- The dainty things fascinate Sharon as Gramma´s create delicate lace for her granddaughters´ hope chests.
- The Patchwork Quilts
- Gramma´s "crazy quilts" made with every salvaged scrap of fabric teach her lasting lesson of "Do not waste."
- The Wine Crock
- Grampa asks Sharon to pick all the dandelions in the lawn and a week later gives her a tiny glass of the resulting wine. Twenty years later, she makes dandelion wine in his crock. He tastes it, smiles, and asks her to keep the crock.
- The Gift of Music
- Sharon falls in love with a piano at her city grandparents´ home, and her Mom´s inheritance from them provides the money to buy one.
- Mother´s Hope Chest
- The hopes of the past, present and future fill Mother´s cedar chest to overflowing.
- Mother´s Locket
- Sharon unveils the piece of jewelry that symbolizes her Mother´s hidden heart, sharing glimpses of it, and describing the path to revealing her own.
- The Ice Box and Canning Jars
- Ice boxes and some old canning jars have become collectible, but there was no thought of that when relatives saved them long after they had outlived their usefulness. Those who survived the Great Depression retained such things in case there were more hard times ahead.
- The Courting Letters
- Evidence of George´s devotion to Aunt Sophia begins with these letters. He tests the waters of her feelings with all the charm of a teenage love story. But there is nothing childish about the beginnings of the love that would last for seventy years.
- George´s Diary 1932-33
- Uncle George spends part of 1932 and most of 1933 unemployed, noting his and other
About the Author
Sharon P. Baumgold was born on December 10, 1945 in the Capital District of New York State. She earned her Bachelor’s. and Master’s. Degrees from the State University of New York at Albany. She began her teaching career in the Albany City Schools and Schenectady City Schools. In 1976, she moved to the Hudson Valley, where she taught in Arlington Central Schools, Wappingers Central Schools, Hyde Park Central Schools and Dutchess Community College over the next twenty years. Mrs. Baumgold was a member of the Mid Hudson Reading Council and served as a reader at Brookhaven, a member of the scholarship committee, and the editor of the council’s newsletter. In 1989, she won The Celebrate Literacy Award from the Mid Hudson Reading Council in recognition of her work with Learning Center students. Sharon’s community service included leading both a Girl Scout Troop and a Brownie Troop. She served as editor of the P.T.A. Newsletter at Titusville Elementary School and a classroom volunteer at Overlook School. She was a neighborhood volunteer for fund raising for both Multiple Sclerosis and The American Cancer Society. At the New Hackensack Dutch Reformed Church in Dutchess County, she taught in the Sunday School and Vacation Bible School programs. As a member of United Methodist Church of Hyde Park, Mrs. Baumgold served as secretary of the Board of Trustees and was a member of the Alternative Christmas Committee. In 1995, Sharon was diagnosed with Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (A.L.S.), also known as “Lou Gehrig's Disease". She wrote: “Today I have been given a death sentence, even though most people would probably agree that I am not guilty of anything serious enough to deserve being tortured to death for the next two to five years. I’m too old to cry NOT FAIR, but I am naive enough to do it anyway. However, if a person looks up the word "fair" in the dictionary, surprise! It has nothing to do with justice, that is, right and wrong. Fair means impartial, so I guess that means an innocent person can be punished as fairly as a guilty one.” She hoped to be physically able to finish her story. In setting out on this task, Sharon wrote: “I have plenty to say, and now I know that I must hurry to write it. I have seen things that no one else has, true of us all, but not many of us get a curtain call. So, this must be my reward. I will write letters to myself and to others on the computer so I can compile them later to tell my story. Every significant feeling I've ever had, event I've experienced, or decision I've made has been documented in a letter to someone. That is probably because I have spent my life seeking validation for every tear, turn, and whim, from age five to age almost fifty. I have written in order to think, a pattern in which I can now find solace.” Sharon Baumgold died peacefully at home on January 12, 2000.