The Other Spouse

About the Book

"My name is Pamela Williams, my reason for writing this book called “The Other Spouse” a character role that I was portraying unwarily during a lengthy season of being connected, joined and knitted together not with just any man, but one I wanted to spend a lifetime loving that became a stronghold called a soul-tie as I later learned. I of course didn’t understand the reasons my life went in the direction it did, due to my rebellion for one, because it surely wasn’t a path I would have chosen, but after thinking long and hard about the things, people and situations God covered and protected me from that should have literally taken my life; it put me in a very grateful position to appreciate the lessons learned and growth from the painful experiences to understand the real purpose of why I had to go through and the assignment I must accept because of it. And for that reason alone I started listening versus hearing the messages God had to say about me, my life and the relationship that I had put more value and trust in over the one I never really gave a chance, effort or time spent with Him. So here I was twenty some years and already married in my heart, comfortable and secure, never giving thought or discussion as to where this relationship is going, or will he ask for my hand in marriage; just being okay with the way things are because I’m finally with someone who is nothing like the others and I trust him. And the moment that statement was made in my heart, God began to remove the scales from my eyes and reveal things to me through the women and men in my family as I observed their behavior and character to understand why and how I was willing to stay connected to this man while finding it difficult but very possible to disconnect from something you didn’t know was capable of such hurt until God allowed it to turn against me, while turning back to HIM, my first love ever. Because without any of our acknowledgment and intelligence we think to have; we are only operating and portraying a role, played by women who raised us and those we have befriend or associated ourselves with that are known and I call “The other Spouse”."

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